When we think of the term dominatrix, we often think of a typical BDSM idea. You know, someone with high heels standing on a guy’s neck while holding a whip. While this is very much the case for many dominatrices – stereotypes do hold some truth to them, at least occasionally – you might be surprised at the variety. Look around on any dominatrix sites, and you will see multiple varieties.
While this list is nowhere near exhaustive, we want to give you a few varieties of the different types of dominatrix out there. This might help you to find the particular kind of dom you are looking for, or it might even help you realize what kind of dom you want to be. Who knows?
The Different Types Of Dominatrix: Where To Start?
While this is a rather advanced topic, once you get into the nitty-gritty of it, there are some basic archetypes to consider. To help you get a better handle on the types of dominatrices you might run into/want to become, here are some of the different types:
Standard Dominatrix
Arguably, the most common form of dominatrix activities will be built around the idea of a master or mistress being in charge. These follow the standard roles often put across in tropes: permission is needed for everything. That means everything from eating food or going to the toilet to having permission to masturbate. There is a strong punishment system often put in place so that failure is ‘rewarded’ with punishment.
Now, this can often go differently, and the severity of the permission and punishment can vary. What will happen in terms of forfeits and punishment will also change from relationship to relationship.
Financial Dominatrix
The idea of financial domination has spread like wildfire in recent years, with many women, in particular, finding their way into this field. The premise is simple: a “paypig” (almost always a wealthy-ish guy) will pay their dominatrix money and watch them spend whatever they desire. Many guys get off on the pleasure of seeing their hard-earned cash spent by a dominatrix.
There are many financial dominatrix available today, especially on dominatrix sites like FindomMeet. Places like this make it easy for a paypig to find their desired partner and start enjoying all of the thrills that come from being a paypig. The majority of people in this scene hold a lot of decision-making power in their day-to-day lives. Surrounding that power can be quite the thrill, apparently!
Ownership/Pet Play
A pure domination fetish, owners essentially treat their submissives like their pets. They will almost replicate the animal-owner dynamic, with things like training bred into the side of things. In some cases, this can be pure pet play – literally spoken to like a dog or worked like a horse. It can simply depend on the person who is on the receiving end of it and the kind of dominatrix that is involved to begin with.
This can be things as simple as training the ‘pet’ to do something the ‘owner’ wants, stuff like providing them with food and water, or even grooming them and attaching things like collars. There is a strong animalistic intent behind this kind of dominatrix personality. It is increasingly common on dominatrix sites now, as there are lots of people who find this kind of fantasy thrilling in their way.
Cuckold/Cuckquean
This has become a more common form of dominatrix play, but some might not actually consider it as such. Still, this is so common now that we thought it important to mention it. This essentially is about a man/woman watching their significant other enjoy sexual relations with another person. Many people find infidelity extremely arousing, and watching their partner with another person is their most powerful turn-on.
The idea of watching your partner get their thrills with someone else is shocking to many. For some, though, it is just the thrill they need to reach maximum climax. Don’t believe us in terms of how popular this is? Just take a look at the dominatrix sites. More and more people are offering to be ‘bulls’ or ‘punny cuckcakes’ – the people who step in and provide pleasure for the cuck to watch.
This covers just a very small selection of the different types of dominatrix. Look around online, and you should see just how easy it is to find a financial dominatrix, for example. However, open your mind – open up various dominatrix sites and see just how many varieties of this exist!