Blogging Ideas for the Femdom Community

Blogging Ideas for the Femdom Community

All websites across the www are, in general, seeking to grow and engage their online audience. The Femdom community is no exception.

Blogging is a great strategy to boost your SEO especially if Google is dismissing your website as sedentary. Not only does it excite the ‘spiders’ but the new blog post will become part of your indexable content. Creating content with authoritative, keyword-rich text is how you will stand out from your competition and position yourself as an authority on your speciality niches.

Blogging is also a great way to engage and build a relationship between yourself and potential clients; sharing your knowledge and experience should help instil in them the confidence needed to reach out and contact you.

How to blog and what to blog about, is a common conversation between me and my Femdom SEO clients, especially when writing is not their natural calling. Here is a blogging method that can easily be applied to the Femdom, Fetish and BDSM niche. Let’s explore the concept further…

“Something OLD, Something NEW, Something BORROWED, something BLUE”

OLD
What are some topics that would fall under this title:

  • A History of BDSM – so vast and varied!
  • Photos from your first Femdom photoshoot – show us a now and then, how have you evolved?
  • Your own history in the BDSM and Fetish scene, what brought you to the BDSM and Femdom world?
  • Who were the movers and shakers when you were introduced to professional domination
  • How has ProDomming changed in the last 20/30/40 years?
  • How has the internet made a difference in professional domination?
  • Remember when there was a busy fetish nightlife in London? Documenting those clubs and venues, the outfits you wore and the friends you made will serve as valuable insight for future generations.

NEW

  • Recent experiences of session stories
  • What’s new in your Playspace?
  • Recent photoshoots
  • Upcoming travels
  • Upcoming events
  • Testimonials.  Ask your clients to create reviews that you can share is possibly the easiest way to create original content. (you could dedicate a blog category for Testimonials only and link to them from your navigation – WordPress users only)

BORROWED

  • Feature someone or something else in your posts.
  • Talk about other people – who do you admire or who inspires you, what do you like about their work? Could be another ProDomme, or an actress, celebrities, designers, authors, musicians – not necessarily in a BDSM context but better if they are! It’s surprising how often BDSM makes an appearance in mainstream culture.
  • Or, perhaps a review of your favourite piece of equipment, with a little promo for the company who made it.

BLUE

  • Something personal: erotic writing, poetry, art you’ve created.
  • A dream or fantasy you wish to fulfil.
  • Past regrets, future hopes.

More importantly, and I touched on this earlier, blog posts are your chance to wax lyrical on all of your favourite types of play and interests, so if you have already posted a list of the types of scenes that you do indulge in, then you already have a very good list of blog posts! It’s a perfect opportunity to flex your muscle in your chosen speciality.

FINALLY 

Set yourself a 12 – week challenge to write 1 new post per week. Rotate through the ideas above and of course add your own – express your ideas and opinions, throw in some self-promotion and insight to who you are both as a professional and as a person. ALWAYS include photos and always remember to tweet your new post ( and don’t be scared to retweet yourself in case people have missed the tweet the first time around)

People doing it well already:

Lady Bellatrix

Miss Katherine Kendal

Mistress Evilyne

Personal Branding and Photography Workshops, London

Personal Branding and Photography Workshops, London

Who needs a Personal Brand? You do.

How do you present yourself to the world and are people taking notice?

Does your website and online persona really reflect YOUR unique personality and values, or something else?

I have teamed up with Kim Rub to create an incredibly useful workshop for ladies who are new to the professional domination industry, that are in need of some guidance. It’s also for anyone who simply wishes to update their photos or give their image a shake-up, or to simply make a fresh start in 2017.

There are limited places, I think around 8 spots in total. However, if it’s a success we hope to repeat the format at least every three months. For further information you can download the brochure as a PDF or flick through the online version below.

Make sure to contact either Kim or me (My Contact Page) ASAP, to secure your spot.

Book a place for Sunday here: https://www.fatsoma.com/photo-workshop/z1kye3ya/photography-personal-branding-workshop

Book a place for Monday here: https://www.fatsoma.com/photo-workshop/8vyo4ua9/photography-personal-branding-workshop

Thank you to all the amazing women I have been privileged to photograph this year. Big Love and a very prosperous 2017 to you all.

Model’s Photo Credits, in order of appearance:
Domina Sophia Larou
Miss Kim Rub
Goddess Anastaxia
Mistress Evilyne
ImpLuna
Miss Olympia
Siren
Miss Velour
Domina M
Lady Bellatrix

Erotic Boots by Ainsley-T

Erotic Boots by Ainsley-T

Some time ago, whilst in the midst of designing an old issue of Skin Two Magazine, I realised that the photos I was laying out, were portraying something very special. Not just a gorgeous pair of handmade Italian red leather boots but a gorgeous pair of boots that had a butt plug as a heel.

Years later and I find myself in possession of a pair of very similar boots; Stuart Thom has sent me the famous Ainsley-T “Fuck Me Lick Me” plug boots and it’s only 30 degrees celsius outside so why not get dressed in as much latex as possible and work on a self-portrait?

The heat got the better of me, but not before capturing these few photos – enjoy!. Make sure to check out the full range of erotic fetish foot wear on the Ainsley-T website

butt plug boots ainsley-t

strapon photo

photo shoot for butt plug boots ainsley-t

 

Helmut Newton

“I still believe that the perfect fashion photograph is a photograph that does not look like a fashion photograph. It’s a photograph that looks like something out of a movie, like a portrait, maybe a souvenir shot, maybe a paparazzi shot, anything but a fashion photograph.” Helmut Newton

Miss Velour and our Heavy Rubber photoshoot on Westminster Bridge in London

Miss Velour and our Heavy Rubber photoshoot on Westminster Bridge in London

My April 2016 trip to London meant copious amounts of client meetings, socialising (i.e alcoholising), family and friend catch-ups and, my current favourite activity: photoshoots. Not just kinky photoshoots either! I am moonlighting as a mainstream photographer and also did a fashion shoot and, an extremely straight, corporate portrait, in a business park. Funnily enough, out of three other fetish photoshoots, the corporate shoot was the instance where security asked us to move on.  (more…)